I feel a need to share this because i find this very true.
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I remember really enjoying the company of boys, as friends, mind you. But then i realized (recently, actually), that no matter how much better i am at what they do, or how much stronger, wittier, funnier, or fearless i am than them, i'll always be the girl.
Its okay to be a little more masculine at heart, a little more outspoken, a little more fearless and a little less weary of what people think. Its actually a good thing, because you are independent and strong and you wont take anyone's shit even if they paid you. But remember, at the same time, to watch how you present yourself (this is important, girls). You might enjoy being around these guys, but you'll never be one of them. And sometimes the more you try to break that barrier between male and female, the more you give off the wrong vibe about who you are as a person. Unless you really are ungraceful... or cheap.
So remember that you are a girl no matter what you say or do, yes i find extremely feminine girls who are really prim and proper and high-pitched annoying too, but back to my point, remember that you got to keep your femininity and dignity at a certain level so people will continue respecting you the way they should. Because boys will be boys. And girls always get labelled.
Awww you read :)
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